Category: Business

  • The Best Advice for Starting a Business

    The Best Advice for Starting a Business

    The Best Advice for Starting a Business

    The best business advice I ever received regarding starting a business was, “Don’t do it”. Statistically speaking, that is the most wise “advice”. Followed, it can save you untold amounts of money, time and heartache; simply because the vast majority of businesses fail. Why? Well frankly, because most people just give up when it gets hard (and it always gets hard).

    “People do not fail, they just give up easily” ~ Elihu Root

    Irregardless of skills and talent, people are generally one of two types of personalities in the business world, “Chandelier Swingers” or “Stones”. You have to figure out which you are, and which you want to be. And the good news is that the world needs BOTH!

    Chandelier swingers are those fearless, swing for the fence types that are more comfortable going-for-broke… and they will likely get there (broke that is) at various points in their journey. But then they’ll keep swinging, and swinging and swinging. Because that is how they’re wired. And because of that, they are far better candidates to start up enterprises and businesses. Businesses require founders who can be fearless, undeterred by doubt, and able to keep swinging throughout. That is how success is ultimately won. And typically this is where the big financial rewards are found.

    “Stones” on the other hand are risk-averse. They tend to play it safe and stay in their lane and comfort zone. This is the majority of personality types and in the business world, you need a lot of stones to build your business. They are the ones that show up day in and day out that you can count on. Solid, steady stones are invaluable and at the end of the day, they are the ones who “make the trains run on time”!

    Every now and then, a stone will step out and want to try their hand at being a chandelier swinger; it rarely works out well, as statistics show. However, that doesn’t mean they can’t transform themselves into a  chandelier swinger over a period of time, but that kind of makeover can take years of internal work, self awareness and understanding.

    As far as outside advice goes, take it in, hear it all, consider it all, but what is “good” advice for YOU is so personal to your experience, journey and current situation. Good advice might be really good, but it also may not be what YOU need right now. Frankly, the only good advice is the advice you give yourself after taking in all the other points of view, dwelling on it, and considering it against the “knowledge of self” that you have honed over the years through brutal self examination and self awareness.

    That said, “Buy low sell high” is alway great advice under any circumstance!

  • Mastering Success: A 5-Part Framework

    Mastering Success: A 5-Part Framework

    5-Part Framework for Success

    I am an expert at failing. I’ve done it so much, more than most, and continue to. I have also had my successes, the definition of which is very differently personal to each of us. Though, through “pattern recognition”, I have found that success always emanates from a particular “framework” – a set of mental conditions created that construct an environment that fosters and allows successes to spring forth. No matter what we are building or creating, these must be present before any success can be realized.

    So here is the “success framework”

    These 5 items on their own might seem like obvious, mere platitudes. But I am going to attach one of my favorite quotes along with an explanation to each element for the purpose of context. I suppose it is no wonder that these are also my favorite quotes, as they’ve always resonated for me in this most important way. Here they are…

    The 5-Part Framework for Success

     1. Never Stop

     2. Ignore Fear

     3. Fail, Learn & Course Correct

     4. Simplify

     5. Keep Boldly Moving Forward

    So let’s unpack this…

    Step 1 – Never stop

    “Men do not fail, they just give up easily” ~ Elihu Root

    Failure is the moat that protects the castle of success, lest everybody would enter, and by definition it would not then be success! Most people simply stop when they first see the moat. The moat has done it’s job, protecting success for the worthy souls that endure.

    But failure IS the path, there is no other, and you have to get through it to succeed, like a maze. Most get to the first obstacle, fail, and incorrectly think, “Oh, this doesn’t work!” – and then quit.

    No, it worked just as it was supposed to. You just have to keep going!

    Step 2 – Ignore fear

    “All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence; then success is sure” ~ Mark Twain

    This sounds frivolous, but it is not! This quote is stating that it is important to become ignorant of fear! Becoming ignorant of fear is to shut off your awareness of your fear of failure, of all the pitfalls you are navigating through. Sure, they are all there, but focusing on them will only drain your energy and confidence.

    At any point in the journey you can CHOOSE where to place your attention. Always choose to ignore your fears and instead become confident by focusing on the desired outcome, or prize.

    Step 3 – Fail, Learn & Course Correct

    “Failure is simply an opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently” ~ Henry Ford

    You need to have a spirit of acceptance of the available lessons from every setback. You win or you learn, both are acceptable outcomes; giving up is not.

    The key is every time we hit a roadblock, accept it, be thankful for it, and ask yourself what did I just prove? What did I just learn about this process and this path I am on?

    And then start again.

    “If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment”~ Henry David Thoreau (that was a bonus quote)

    Step 4 – Simplify

    “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication” ~ Leonardo da Vinci

    I love this quote! The “ultimate sophistication” is that which has all unnecessary elements or steps stripped away, leaving only the essential. Our focus should always be placed upon the essential to maximize our opportunities for success. “The essential” is honed and revealed through the above process of “fail, learn & course correct”.

    Simplicity then diminishes our likelihood of falling into “paralysis through analysis”.

    Step 5 – Keep Boldly Moving Forward

    “Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid” ~ Basil King

    Fortune favors the BOLD. Why? Because success only comes at the end of a long process of Boldly Moving Forward, when all apparent evidence points only toward failure and demise. That takes courage and when that boldness finally pays off, it will seem as though magical mighty forces have come to your aid!

    Now go get it…

    Here’s to YOUR success! Please leave your thoughts and comments below…